Showing posts with label alzheimers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label alzheimers. Show all posts

Thursday, August 9, 2012

somedays are just like this



sometimes  when I walk to my Moms  house for morning coffee, three doors down, Jack greets me with a grin 
and a story about the porch lizards and yard birds. 
We sit for a moment and talk about the same story 
we did the day before. {Lizard mating habits and bird territories}. After all,  he is the "Critter Whisperer". 
He talks gently and speaks softly to the local mosquitoes
and annoying no-see-ems. 


but this particular morning he had a scowl. He was kinda pissed. My silly early morning antics did not amuse him.He declared that the next door neighbors were operating a Whore House. Four women live there.They had too many cars illegally parked.

Truth is, a young adorable-hardworking-engaged-to-be-married-couple live there. He is good friends and very social with them. 

But not this day. 
I tried to tell him that it is NOT a whorehouse, but friendly neighbors who mow their lawn, pay taxes and plan 
to have children and build the white picket fence life .

He scorned them, saying that in his day when a man and woman lived together they were man and wife.

I reminded him that he LIVED with my Mom and LOVED her 10 years before they married. He did not remember that part of his life story.



Alzheimers is a confusing disease.
He was mad at me for the next few hours.

 


We choose to love, laugh and carry on.
Everyday, every hour is a brand new adventure.
Most days are familiar....but the whorehouse situation 
next door was a hard pill to swallow.

and the pills will become larger and harder to swallow... 
     as time goes by.